GROW

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Group Conscience Topics

 

Weekly Meeting

  • Limiting Topic Leaders (10/13)
  • Monthly Step Meetings (10/08)
  • Separating AA Readings (10/08)
  • Topic Postings (10/06)
  • Topic Postings (4/12)
  • Weekly Leader Replacement (10/08)
  • Weekly Leader Sobriety Requirements (10/06)
  • Weekly Leader Sobriety Requirements (4/06)
  • Weekly Meeting Logistics (10/08)
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    Weekly Meeting > Limiting Topic Leaders (10/13)
    Decision: The Proposal was Withdrawn.

    Proposal: Limit Leader Sign-ups to Once Per QuarterIt is proposed that we consider limiting members to chairing no more than once each quarter in order to encourage participation from many people in the group. The implementation would be to include a statement about this in the message the WLL sends out, and will also be up to the WLL to take this into account when she assigns the schedule.

    In order to provide ample opportunity for many members to chair the weekly Grow meetings, members should chair at most once during a quarter, with the quarters being:

    Two possible outcomes are anticipated; some people will be very disappointed and others will be grateful. Some members volunteer immediately each time the call goes out for leaders, and others who may contact the WLL a day or two after the call are disappointed that they cannot chair.

    If this proposal is adopted, a sentence should be included in the Weekly Topic Leader Message as follows: "In order to provide ample opportunity for many members to chair the weekly Grow meetings, members should chair at most once during a quarter."

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    Weekly Meeting > Monthly Step Meetings (10/08)
    Decision: Because we have not moved toward a common ground in eight days regarding the posting of monthly step meetings, the group appears to agree to disagree. Therefore, this agenda item is retired, and the meeting format will continue as it is currently organized.

    Comments: The Chair noted unwavering support for a Step meeting, so discussion continued in the hopes of finding middle ground. No middle ground arose. Some example comments are:

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    Weekly Meeting > Separating AA Readings (10/08)
    Decision: This agenda item to separate the weekly readings from the topic is retired, and the meeting format will continue as it is currently organized.

    Comments: This part of the original proposal was discussed extensively during the first four days. The Chair pulled it out, hoping that some common ground might be found. This did not happen. Comments either favored or opposed the proposal. The Chair offers two of the comments here, as examples of how divided the opnion seems:

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    Weekly Meeting > Topic Postings (4/12)
    Decision: We have consensus on this Proposal and it is APPROVED that we begin posting the meeting on Saturday, no later than Sunday morning. We will "revisit" this topic in our October 2012 Business Meeting to discuss possible modification of our website and literature to reflect this change.

    Proposal: Begin posting the meeting on Saturday, no later than Sunday morning, to ensure that ladies in various time zones will receive the meeting on Sunday.

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    Weekly Meeting > Topic Postings (10/06)
    Decision: Reaffirmed that weekly meeting leads are sent on Sunday, with no time specified. The Weekly Lead Listkeeper may, at her discretion, maintain a list of available leaders she can call on to start the meeting if no lead is posted by Monday morning.

    Proposal: Weekly Leader Protocol
    Discussion of this topic has reminded us that we have members all over the world, and that Sunday hours are therefore quite different for many of us. Most of us agree that any time on Sunday is good for sending out the lead for the week. Most of us are in favor of having a backup person to give a lead on Monday if no lead is sent on Sunday. Our Weekly Lead Listkeeper may like to have a list of available leaders ready to write if no lead goes out on Sunday.

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    Weekly Meeting > Weekly Leader Replacement (10/08)
    Decision: No suggestion for a compromise appeared on how to find a replacement for weekly topic leaders who cannot or do not send out the topic on Sunday.

    Comments: This was discussed during the first four days with no agreement in sight. The Chair pulled it out, hoping that some common ground might be found. This did not happen. Comments either favored or opposed the proposal.

    No suggestion for a compromise came up in the previous discussion, so the Chair proposed a compromise: The chair suggests that the weekly leader listkeeper could encourage the chair volunteers to find their own replacements, and to let her know in a timely fashion. Further, the chair suggests we offer this to the weekly leader listkeeper as a suggestion, rather than codifying it with formal language..."

    This was met with a lot of discussion:

    Two ideas seemed to arise that had a fair amount of support:
    That the letter to the leader volunteers stress that it's their responsibility to find a replacement.
    That when the list is published on a group level as to who the volunteers are that we head that with a statement that makes it clear that if the leader cannot, for any reason, fulfill her commitment that she should find her own replacement to put out a topic.

    A third idea wasn't directly addressed, but focused on the presence of a list of backups that the WLL maintains. The chair will take these ideas and put forth a proposal to the group,

    Based on previous discussion, the chair suggested that we consider:
    The letter to the leader volunteers stress that it's their responsibility to find a replacement.
    When the list is published on a group level as to who the volunteers are that we head that with a statement that makes it clear that if the leader cannot, for any reason, fulfill her commitment that she should find her own replacement to put out a topic.

    Several people favored this proposal. One did not agree and raised the same issue as for the Weekly Leader Listkeeper's position responsibilities:

    I am in favor of the WLL maintaining a list of backup volunteers to lead. My opinion remains that one of the backup topic volunteers be available for each month to send out a topic if the topic does not show up by Sunday evening. We can talk this one into the ground, but no system is going to be perfect. We are all perfectly imperfect and human.

    Since we will be discussing the WLL's position, we will keep this agenda item open.

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    Weekly Meeting > Weekly Leader Sobriety Requirements (10/06)
    Decision: Members have 90 days of sobriety and 30 days of GROW membership to lead weekly meetings.

    Proposal: Weekly Leader Requirements. We are presently in the discussion phase at this time. We have not yet reached a formal group consensus.

    The motion has been made and seconded: "Members have 90 days of sobriety and 30 days of GROW membership to lead weekly meetings."

    Comments: Additional clarification from webkeeper: Most of the members who have responded to this item support 90 days of sobriety and 30 days as a member of GROW. Three of those who responded feel that there should be no sobriety or membership requirements.

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    Weekly Meeting > Weekly Leader Sobriety Requirements (4/06)
    Decision: We established requirements for the length of sobriety and length of GROW membership for weekly meeting leaders to be a minimum of three months GROW membership and a minimum of three months sobriety.

    Proposal: A member asked what the requirements are for leading a meeting. The Steering Committee agreed that no prior decision had been made and that it should be taken to the group.

    Comments: We need a discussion about the length of sobriety and length of GROW membership for weekly meeting leaders. Jean wrote that she thought it should be three and three (a minimum of three months GROW membership and a minimum of three months sobriety). Of the nine members who responded after Jean, all agreed with her suggestion. There were no objections.

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    Weekly Meeting > Weekly Meeting Logistics (10/08)
    Decision: No decision was reached on this proposal. Recommendations were considered separately. They were:

    1. a - that the AA readings be posted separately
    2. b- that the WLL remind the chair 1 week in advance that she will be leading
    3. c - that the list of upcoming chairwomen be posted monthly
    4. d - that the scheduled chair should find her own replacement.
    Proposal: The Chair divided this proposal into three sections.

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